Clergyman, Mike Bamiloye, has expressed his fears for Nigerian youths as it concerns marriage.
In a post shared on social media today April 24, the cleric said many youths are not preparing enough to enter into marriage. According to him, they are rushing in and are being taught how to rush out of marriage when things are not working out as expected.
His post reads;
‘’RED FLAG ALONG THE WAY
I am so afraid of the Youths of this Generation.
Many are not Preparing enough to enter into Marriage. Many are very Shallow in their knowledge of Marriage. They Prepare more for the Wedding Day, than for the Marriage Life. No Deep studies on what Marriage Entails.
They are too hasty and not Ready to Sit down and Learn the Principles of Marital Life.
Many Ladies are not qualified to be WIFE even at 28.
They Can’t cook properly. They are used to Fast Food at the Eateries, and Ice Cream and Indomie and Spagetti plus boiled Eggs and Titus, and they spend six months studying the wedding Gowns and the accessories for the Bridal Trails.
AND THEY WANT TO MARRY.
My Dear Sister is 26, by she is still not yet a Wife Material.
But she is Beautiful,
But she can not cook.
She is not Spiritually Strong in Prayers.
And she has a shallow knowledge of the Word of God.
How would she withstand the spiritual challenges that comes against every home now?
How would she take her stand in the Word of God against every wiles of the DEvil that blow against every Christian Home now?
Too materialistic and very little knowledge of Home Management.
The Other time a friend of hers was going to her husband’s house,
She went with a big BOOK OF COOKERY, which was Published in UK.
Unfortunately, there was no Recipes for the cooking of Nigerian food.
Then I was told she downloaded some Applications on her Android phone on How To Cook.
She spent several months preparing for Wedding Day,
But few moment to Study what Marriage Life is.
If LOVE IS BLIND AT COURTSHIP,
IT IS MARRIAGE THAT WILL OPEN THE BLIND EYES.
Now, Our Young Sisters are being taught HOW TO WALK OUT OF MARRIAGE.
Many of them are rushing in and they are being taught How To Rush Out of It when things are not Working out as Expected.
I AM AGAINST ABUSE TO WOMEN.
I AM AGAINST ABUSE TO WIVES.
A MAN THAT BEAT OR TORTURE HIS WIFE IS AN ANIMAL, UNFIT TO LIVE AMONG HUMAN.
THE BIBLE SAYS, HE HAS DONE IT TO HIMSELF.
and, THERE ARE ALSO MANY ABUSES GOING AGAINST MEN IN THE CLOSETS.
However, we are now having too many Breakings and Separations and Divorce among Children of God.
No Endurance.
No Respect.
No Perseverance.
No Patience.
When things do not go as expected, it becomes INCOMPATIBILITY.
And our youths, especially Ladies are being taught to Walk out of the Marriages.
So today, many Young Marriages are not fulfilled.
Every Marriage has its rough edges.
But you have to Sharpen the Rough-Edges.
Sister, when you were in Courtship,
As a child of God,
You ought to have noticed some little little devilish behaviour in the young man,
Which the Holy spirit was pointing to you as Red Flag.
But You were too much in Love.
You were too much impatience to get into marriage with him.
Or, you noticed them,
But you wished them away,
As ordinary habits.
What then was the meaning of Courtship?
Was it not to Prayerfully keep watching along the way?
And to eventually confirm if truly this is of God?
The Holy Spirit must have shown you many things you need to know to give you directions and Red Flags,
But Love covered your eyes.
Now Marriage has opened the eyes.
Brother, all through the Courtship,
You had noticed this sister has no Credentials in Domestic Affairs.
You had noticed a lot of Disrespectful Behaviours against leaders and Relatives.
You had noticed her stubbornness and Arrogance and stiffneckedness.
Yet, you ignored all these, you never made any corrections.
You never took any steps to groom the future Bride.
And the few moment you had Attempted to correct her,
She had put up a terrible resistance that took you many days to apologize.
YET YOU DID NOT KNOW THAT YOU WERE BEING SHOWN RED FLAGS.
Sister, you had seen this brother on many occassion eyeing other Sisters. You had read many of his text messages to some strange Sisters and on each occassion you accosted him, he kept on apologizing.
He told a lot of lies as a Christian.
And you knew these!
SINCE YOU REMAINED IN IT AND WENT ON WITH IT, IT MEANS YOU ARE ABSOLUTELY CONVINCED, IT THE WILL OF GOD FOR YOU.
NOW YOU MARRIED.
NOW HE BORE OUT HIS FULL FANGS.
NOW YOU MARRIED HER.
AND SHE CAME OUT IN HER FULL COLOUR.
YOU NOW CALL IT ABUSE!
Some people are now Teaching you how to Walk Away From the marriage.!
What Does This Verse of The Scripture Mean To You….?
Malachi 2:16 NKJV
[16] “For the LORD God of Israel says That He hates divorce, For it covers one’s garment with violence,” Says the LORD of hosts. “Therefore take heed to your spirit, That you do not deal treacherously.”
IS THERE NEED FOR PATIENCE?
Be Patience.
IS THERE A NEED FOR ENDURANCE?
Endure, With Prayers and Doing the right things, it has an End.
IS THERE A NEED FOR YOU TO LOOK INWARD FOR THINGS YOU OUGHT TO DO? Prayerfully look inward.
DOES HE WANT TO KILL YOU?
Hide Your Life.”
